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What follows are images of a sexual practice called "fisting," "fist fucking" or "handballing."
It takes a great deal of patience, trust and concentration. Please don't try this without researching it first!
Done improperly you could wind up with injuries.

What follows is not a primer for fisting,
but rather an introduction to the concept.




Fisting is a slow process of opening the anus to allow a full hand to enter.



This requires increble trust of your partner and the ability to consciously relax your muscles. The white stuff is normal "Crisco", often used as lube that wont break down quickly.



It takesgreat skill for the fister to be able to gently navigate the anal anatomy and work up into the colon like this.



This is quite unusual, the ability to take 2 hands!


Basic Terminology:

"Bottom"
Person being entered


"Top"
Person who's hand is
entering the receiver (bottom).







For people who have never seen this before, the initial reaction is usually shock and amazement. After that come a bunch of questions.

WHY???

A very good question... yet, very hard to answer because it is not a simple process. There are many things connected. Here are some reasons:

1. It is a very intimate, sensual and erotic experience to open up to another person and trust them enough to allow them inside you.

2. It fulfills a deep desire to explore and master your own body. Pushing beyond the limits of what is common. A powerful sense of accomplishment.

3. It is a mind blowing experience, an intense rush and thrill of emotion.

4. It feels like a very healing experience. (There can be significant emotional healing from Fisting.)

HOW???

The bottom generally works up to the experience by exploring with larger and larger dildos. It's a process of learning to relax your anal muscles and allowing them to stretch to a wider and wider opening. It takes some people years to have the ability to mentally and physically be open wide enough for fisting.

The bottom then finds an experienced top he can trust. The top lubes the bottom up real well, then slowly begins opening the anus with one finger, two, three, four, and finally the whole hand.

The anatomy is different on each person, but for most, as the top is entering, he also needs to work his fingers up into the colon past an internal opening (Rectal Sling Muscle). This allows the hand to have enough room to completely enter the rectum.

Once inside, the top slowly works his way up the colon, to the main bend. How far a hand/arm will enter is limited by the bottom's unique anatomy as well as the skill of the top.

DOES IT CAUSE DAMAGE?

When done properly, no it does not cause any damage and no pain is involved. The general rule is if it hurts, STOP!

The other thing people assume is that the anus will not close up again after being stretched. This is not true, it does tighten again, but it takes from a couple minutes to hours depending on how large it was opened, and for how long.

ISN'T IT DIRTY?

No. The top rinses himself out of the fecal material in his lower colon before fisting. By taking in enemas, you can flush out the lower part of the colon so it is clean and empty.



 More Information on fisting:
Book:
Trust, the Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing
Fisting Facts Fisting Facts... from guys who having been doing this a LOOOOONG time!
Lot's of GREAT information!
Handballing Guide
An exceptionally detailed guide (quite anal actually :)
My God, I've Got My Hand Inside You - Fisting experiences





Todd Perkins - Sept 2003
revised - July 2007

 
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