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New September 2007

Fingering (stimulating your ass, or your partner's ass, with one or more fingers) can be stimulating and fun. When you are by yourself, it can be another way to arouse and pleasure yourself. With a partner, it can be a great sex activity for both the person doing the fingering as well as the person being fingered, whether as it's own enjoyable sex act, or as a "warm-up" to fucking.
It's common sense to make sure that your ass (or your partner's ass) is clean before fingering.

You should also be aware that cuts and sores on your fingers can increase the chance of getting infections from fingering, so act accordingly.
Your finger nails should be smooth and trimmed. The lining of the anus is delicate, and can be easily irritated, scratched, or torn by long or rough finger nails.
Obviously, you need to be able to reach your ass, or your partner's ass, to finger the ass! If you are with a partner, position yourselves so that there is easy access to the ass to be fingered. If fingering yourself, try different ways of reaching behind you so you can touch your ass, in a comfortable position.

Start by exploring your ass (or your partner's ass) with your fingers. Feel your (or his) buns, spread your (or his) ass cheeks, exposing the anus.
Use lots of lube, on your finger, and on the anus.
Rub your finger gently over the opening of the anus. Run your finger between the anus and the base of the ball sac. Many men find this very stimulating.

Relax your sphincter muscle, and gently insert the tip of your finger into your (or your partner's) ass. Hold it there a moment. Try tightening and loosening the sphincter muscle around the finger.
Slide your finger further into the ass. If at any time there is any discomfort, stop, and take a moment for the sphincter muscle to relax.
Gently move your finger around. You can slide it in and out, and you can move the tip of your finger around, felling the inside of the ass. Rotate your hand, so the finger in the ass turns/rotates. Massage the prostate, which can be very stimulating.

Try using different fingers. Your middle finger is usually bigger -- both in length and girth -- so you'll be able to reach further up the ass.
Try sliding more than 1 finger at a time into the ass. Start slowly and gently. Moving each finger independently inside the ass can be really stimulating.

Some guys like to have 3 or 4 fingers in their ass. Experiment, and find out what is comforable, enjoyable, and stimulating.
Try using your thumb. Although not as long as your fingers, the added thickness of the thumb can be a new exciting experience.

Try different positions. You can lie on your back, you can kneel on your knees, you can stand.
You can reach your ass from the front, around your balls, or from the side or behind.
As with many sexual activities, variety can be exciting!

For many men, stimulating the ass is a very pleasurable experience. For some, this can quickly bring them to the point of ejaculation. For others, combining fingering with other forms of stimulation -- nipple play, masturbation, blow jobs -- is a form of great pleasure.

When fingering with a partner, let each other know what you want. This can be done directly, by telling your partner what you want (or that you want him to keep doing what he's doing!), through verbal clues (e.g., moaning or gasping!), or through body language.
Don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, and have fun with it.

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	Fingering (stimulating your ass, or your partner's ass, with one or more fingers) can be stimulating and fun. When you are by yourself, it can be another way to arouse and pleasure yourself. With a partner, it can be a great sex activity for both the person doing the fingering as well as the person being fingered, whether as it's own enjoyable sex act, or as a "warm-up" to fucking. It's common sense to make sure that your ass (or your partner's ass) is clean before fingering.
	You should also be aware that cuts and sores on your fingers can increase the chance of getting infections from fingering, so act accordingly. Your finger nails should be smooth and trimmed. The lining of the anus is delicate, and can be easily irritated, scratched, or torn by long or rough finger nails. Obviously, you need to be able to reach your ass, or your partner's ass, to finger the ass! If you are with a partner, position yourselves so that there is easy access to the ass to be fingered. If fingering yourself, try different ways of reaching behind you so you can touch your ass, in a comfortable position.
	Start by exploring your ass (or your partner's ass) with your fingers. Feel your (or his) buns, spread your (or his) ass cheeks, exposing the anus. Use lots of lube, on your finger, and on the anus. Rub your finger gently over the opening of the anus. Run your finger between the anus and the base of the ball sac. Many men find this very stimulating.
	Relax your sphincter muscle, and gently insert the tip of your finger into your (or your partner's) ass. Hold it there a moment. Try tightening and loosening the sphincter muscle around the finger. Slide your finger further into the ass. If at any time there is any discomfort, stop, and take a moment for the sphincter muscle to relax. Gently move your finger around. You can slide it in and out, and you can move the tip of your finger around, felling the inside of the ass. Rotate your hand, so the finger in the ass turns/rotates. Massage the prostate, which can be very stimulating.
	Try using different fingers. Your middle finger is usually bigger -- both in length and girth -- so you'll be able to reach further up the ass. Try sliding more than 1 finger at a time into the ass. Start slowly and gently. Moving each finger independently inside the ass can be really stimulating.
	Some guys like to have 3 or 4 fingers in their ass. Experiment, and find out what is comforable, enjoyable, and stimulating. Try using your thumb. Although not as long as your fingers, the added thickness of the thumb can be a new exciting experience.
	Try different positions. You can lie on your back, you can kneel on your knees, you can stand. You can reach your ass from the front, around your balls, or from the side or behind. As with many sexual activities, variety can be exciting!
	For many men, stimulating the ass is a very pleasurable experience. For some, this can quickly bring them to the point of ejaculation. For others, combining fingering with other forms of stimulation -- nipple play, masturbation, blow jobs -- is a form of great pleasure.
	When fingering with a partner, let each other know what you want. This can be done directly, by telling your partner what you want (or that you want him to keep doing what he's doing!), through verbal clues (e.g., moaning or gasping!), or through body language. Don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, and have fun with it.