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Anal Sex -
Being a TOP

Anal Sex -
Being a BOTTOM

Anal Sex -
Positions

Fucking (anal sex) is often considered to be the definitive form of gay sex. Fucking really requires the active participation of both the top (the guy doing the fucking by slipping his cock up into his partner's ass) and the bottom (the guy getting fucked, with his partner's cock up his ass). A bottom who just lies there and takes a cock up his ass is not making it as exciting a sexual encounter as it could be for the top, nor for himself. A top who thinks it's all about being the top is not going to make it as pleasurable an experience for the bottom as it otherwise could be.

Some men prefer being only a bottom, while other men may prefer being only a top.
A versatile guy likes both -- being fucked (bottom) and fucking (top). It's great to be versatile and get pleasure out of either the top or bottom role in anal sex!
When it comes to anal sex, "bigger" is not always better! Trying to ram a big cock into a tight ass can be uncomfortable for both the bottom and the top! Most bottoms can readily take an average size cock up their ass.

Anal sex has a higher risk of transmission of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) than some other forms of sex.
You should understand and assess the risk of STDs before engaging in any sexual activity, particularly anal sex. Using a condom can lower the level of risk. While some men feel that putting on a condom can interrupt the sexual encounter, lower the sexual intensity, and cause them to lose some (or all) their erection, try making it part of foreplay with your partner. It can be stimulating and arousing for a guy to put a condom on his partner's hard cock!

Bareback anal sex -- anal intercourse without the use of a condom -- can be really stimulating and exciting, if you decide to engage in that activity (e.g., if you have a monogamous relationship with your partner). The top's cock is more readily stimulated without a condom, and therefore sex without a condom can be more pleasurable. The thought of shooting your load inside your partner's ass (or having him shoot his load inside your ass) is a real turn-on for many men.

Use lots of lube for anal sex, to avoid irritation and chafing of both the top's cock and the bottom's ass. If using a condom, use a water-based lube, since oil-based lubes can cause rubber condoms to deteriorate and leak. Water-based lubes can get sticky and lose their effectiveness more quickly than oil-based lubes, so you may need to apply water-based lubes more frequently than oil-based lubes.

Once again don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favour and both of you will have a better time.

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	Fucking (anal sex) is often considered to be the definitive form of gay sex. Fucking really requires the active participation of both the top (the guy doing the fucking by slipping his cock up into his partner's ass) and the bottom (the guy getting fucked, with his partner's cock up his ass). A bottom who just lies there and takes a cock up his ass is not making it as exciting a sexual encounter as it could be for the top, nor for himself. A top who thinks it's all about being the top is not going to make it as pleasurable an experience for the bottom as it otherwise could be.
	Some men prefer being only a bottom, while other men may prefer being only a top. A versatile guy likes both -- being fucked (bottom) and fucking (top). It's great to be versatile and get pleasure out of either the top or bottom role in anal sex! When it comes to anal sex, "bigger" is not always better! Trying to ram a big cock into a tight ass can be uncomfortable for both the bottom and the top! Most bottoms can readily take an average size cock up their ass.
	Anal sex has a higher risk of transmission of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) than some other forms of sex. You should understand and assess the risk of STDs before engaging in any sexual activity, particularly anal sex. Using a condom can lower the level of risk. While some men feel that putting on a condom can interrupt the sexual encounter, lower the sexual intensity, and cause them to lose some (or all) their erection, try making it part of foreplay with your partner. It can be stimulating and arousing for a guy to put a condom on his partner's hard cock!
	Bareback anal sex -- anal intercourse without the use of a condom -- can be really stimulating and exciting, if you decide to engage in that activity (e.g., if you have a monogamous relationship with your partner). The top's cock is more readily stimulated without a condom, and therefore sex without a condom can be more pleasurable. The thought of shooting your load inside your partner's ass (or having him shoot his load inside your ass) is a real turn-on for many men.
	Use lots of lube for anal sex, to avoid irritation and chafing of both the top's cock and the bottom's ass. If using a condom, use a water-based lube, since oil-based lubes can cause rubber condoms to deteriorate and leak. Water-based lubes can get sticky and lose their effectiveness more quickly than oil-based lubes, so you may need to apply water-based lubes more frequently than oil-based lubes.
	Once again don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favour and both of you will have a better time.