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Anal Sex -
Introduction

Anal Sex -
Being a BOTTOM

Anal Sex -
Positions

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Fucking a guy should be as much about giving him pleasure as it is about getting pleasure yourself. There's more to fucking than just "in and out"! To be a good top, it helps to be aware of what it's like to be a bottom.

If you have a sizable endowment, or the bottom you are about to fuck hasn't been fucked very often, or the bottom has a tight ass, or he is somewhat wary about you plunging your cock up his ass without adequate preparation or warning, you can try to make things easier for him.

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It can help the bottom if you first loosen him up. A couple of ways you can do this are to rim him or finger him. This can be fun and stimulating for you too!

If you are going to finger your partner, use plenty of lube. Work a single finger up his ass. Be patient. You may have to encourage him to relax his sphincter muscle to get your finger in. You can try sliding your finger slowly all the way in, then almost all the way out, once he is used to having your finger inside him. See how he reacts to having a finger up his ass. Then try two fingers. If you're feeling adventurous and so is he, try three fingers, or your thumb.

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Once he feels comfortable, try slipping just your cockhead inside of him. As you feel your cockhead slip in, stop and hold it there for a while. As your partner gets used to it, push in a little more. If you see your partner wince, then stop pushing your cock further into his ass and hold it in the position it's in, or pull out just a little if he needs you to. When he's ready, slowly ease your cock in a bit further at a time. This way you should eventually be able to get most of your cock, if not all, inside of him. Once you do, use long slow strokes for the maximum amount of pleasure, sliding the shaft of your cock in and out of him, without your cockhead slipping out of his ass. Increase the speed of your strokes when your partner is ready for that.

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Some guys use short in and out strokes when fucking. But longer strokes can be more satisfying for both the top and bottom. Give it a try!

Try not to pull your cock completely out of his ass while fucking him. If you do pull out completely, ease your cock back in slowly. Sliding it back in quickly can cause air to get pushed inside your partner's ass, which can lead to some rather embarrassing results when the air is expelled (which may bring along other "matter" with it!)

Note, however, that slipping just your cockhead in and out of your partner's ass can also be a wonderful way to tease him, if you're careful.

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Bareback anal sex -- anal intercourse without the use of a condom -- can be really stimulating and exciting, if you decide to engage in that activity (e.g., if you have a monogamous relationship with your partner). The top's cock is more readily stimulated without a condom, and therefore sex without a condom can be more pleasurable. The thought of shooting your load inside your partner's ass (or having him shoot his load inside your ass) is a real turn-on for many men.

Use lots of lube for anal sex, to avoid irritation and chafing of both the top's cock and the bottom's ass. If using a condom, use a water-based lube, since oil-based lubes can cause rubber condoms to deteriorate and leak. Water-based lubes can get sticky and lose their effectiveness more quickly than oil-based lubes, so you may need to apply water-based lubes more frequently than oil-based lubes.

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There are many different positions you and your partner can use for fucking. It can be stimulating to try different positions, and switch positions part way through fucking. Fucking in different locations -- inside or outside -- can also be erotic and stimulating.

Use your hands when fucking! If you can reach, play with your partner's nipples, fondle his balls, and stroke his cock. Be aware that many bottoms will reach the point of ejaculation very quickly with just a little stimulation of their cock when being fucked. If you want to prolong the sexual encounter, be careful not to jerk him off too quickly.

Don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favour and both of you will have a better time.

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Anal Sex -
Introduction

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Being a BOTTOM

Anal Sex -
Positions

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