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Stroking your cock, or your partner's cock, to the point of orgasm (i.e., until you ejaculate / cum / shoot your load) is a common practice.
There are finer points to masturbation, and there are many ways to make it more enjoyable, whether you are by yourself, or jerking off your partner.
Introducing some variety in the way you stimulate your cock (or your partner's cock) can bring new and added enjoyment.
Some guys prefer to have their cock stimulated with a light touch; other guys prefer a more aggressive touch.
If you're jerking off your partner, ask him what he prefers!
Some guys like to have a fairly tight grip, so that the skin on the shaft of the cock moves with the hand as it strokes the cock; other guys like to have the hand glide over the skin of the shaft of the cock.
Some guys like to have their cock head stimulated, while other guys may find that makes them cum more quickly than they want to.
Experiment, and vary the way you jerk-off!
Ask your partner what he prefers, if you are jerking him off.
Using lube on your cock while jerking off can enhance the stimulation.
Some guys sometimes like to jerk off without lube.
Again, varying the way you jerk off can be more enjoyable than always jerking off the same way.
Some of the positions and grips you can use for jerking off either yourself or your partner are outlined below.
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The Fist
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The Fist
In this common technique, you simply wrap all the fingers of your hand around the shaft of your cock (like you would grip a baseball bat), with the palm of your hand contacting your cock.
Rub your hand up and down the shaft of your cock.
This grip provides lots of contact between your hand and your cock � and more contact can mean more pleasure.
This technique is especially good if you have a thick cock.
Some guys like to slide their fist all the way to the head of their cock; other guys like to keep their fist off their cock head.
Most guys have a particular part of their cock they like to have stimulated; it may be near the base of the cock, near the head of the cock, or somewhere in between.
5 Finger
With this technique, your hand and arm form an angle with your cock, with four fingers on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below.
The palm of the hand is not in direct contact with the shaft of your cock.
This allows you to get more control over the hand-to-cock contact, and it lets you move your hand along the entire length of the shaft.
This technique can be good for cocks that aren't super-wide. |
5 Finger
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3 Finger
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3 Finger
Simply hold your cock as you would a pen or a pencil, with 2 fingers and your thumb.
This grip allows maximum control and maximum distance of motion (from the base of the cock all the way to the head), but the hand-to-cock contact is less than with other grips.
Backhand
This is somewhat of a backwards version of the "fist".
Grab your cock from the side opposite to that you would normally grab it with your fist (i.e., if you are using your right hand to jerk off, grab your cock, using your right hand, from the left side of your cock.
To do this, rotate your wrist so your thumb is pointing down; you may have to pull your penis slightly to the side.
It may feel a little awkward at first, but it's an excellent grip to use when you want to try something other than the "Fist" for a few minutes.
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Backhand
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2 Fisted
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2 Fisted
Grab your cock with both your fists.
The ability to use both fists completely depends on the size of your hands, and the length of your cock.
You can jerk off by moving both hands up and down your cock, or holding one in a fixed position on your cock while sliding the other fist up and down.
2 Hand Interlocked
Grab your cock with both hands, and interlock the fingers of your hands on the underside of your cock.
Stroke your cock using whatever pressure you like (or vary the pressure as you stroke).
This technique works well if you have a thick cock.
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2 Hand Interlocked
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Ring
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Ring
Form a ring around your cock, using your thumb and your index finger.
Jerk off without your other fingers or the palm of your hand touching your cock, sliding the ring up and down the shaft of your cock.
It can also feel really good to have the ring right below the edge of your cock-head, and use very, very short strokes.
Double Ring
Form two rings around your cock, each with the thumb and forefinger.
You can jerk off various ways with the double ring.
You can keep one ring steady (either the upper or lower ring), and stroke your cock with the other ring.
You can stroke your cock with both rings, the upper ring stroking the upper part of your cock, and the lower ring stroking the base of your cock.
This can be done in a synchronized fashion (both rings stroking in unison), or unsynchronized (each ring stroking independently of the other).
You can also start with one ring at the base of your cock, and slide at all the way up your cock shaft and right off the end of your cock head, and alternate with the ring from your other hand.
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Double Ring
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2 Palms
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2 Palms
With your fingers pointing down, place the palm of your right hand against the right side of your cock shaft, and place the palm of your left hand against the left side of your cock shaft.
Slide the palms of your hands up and down the sides of your cock shaft and cock head.
This can either be down together (i.e., both hands move up at the same time, then down at the same time), or in opposite directions (one palm moves up your cock shaft while the other moves down your cock shaft).
This technique may be better if you use lube on your hands and cock.
Palm Rub
Place the palm of one hand against the underside of your cock shaft, with your fingers pointing towards the base of your cock, and your cock against your abdomen.
Rub your cock with the palm of your hand.
Try this with lube on your hand, cock, and abs.
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Palm Rub
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Mr. Spock
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Mr Spock
Form a "V" with the fingers of one hand (like Spock, from Star Trek).
Using plenty of lube, place the base of the V against the topside of your cock shaft, with your fingers pointing towards the head of your cock.
Slide the V of your fingers up and down your cock shaft.
Vary the speed and pressure to enhance the stimulation.
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Mr. Spock
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