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A kiss can set the mood for your entire sexual experience with your partner.
The key to good kissing is to actively use your lips. Have you ever kissed a guy that didn't use his lips at all? Kissing a guy who just tenses his lips and leaves them like that feels like kissing a statue.
Relax or at least, make a mental effort to relax, your lips. Allow them to be soft and pliable. As you start to kiss, try gently brushing your partner's cheek with them, or run them along his neck just barely making contact with his skin.

Don't be afraid to use your breath. Feeling a guy's warm breath on my neck, or gently blowing in my ear, can be very hot! It can send goose bumps down my neck, back, and arms.
This type of gentle foreplay with your partner can be extremely sensual, and it can build up sexual tension. It can also serve to establish nonverbal communication between the two of you. His reactions to this sort of foreplay will give you indications of his overall sexual responsiveness.
As you get into it, you'll probably start using your tongue. Run or flick your tongue across his lips, moistening them slightly without actually kissing him. When you do finally kiss, make sure to lick your own lips from time to time to ensure their softness. It's not very pleasant to kiss someone whose lips have the texture of sandpaper.

Use your tongue on his neck, gently running it around his earlobe and ear. If you feel like it, suck on his earlobe. Try covering his entire ear with your mouth and gently exhale. Try not to inhale while doing this, and don't exhale too quickly because the rushing air will make him feel like he's in a wind tunnel.
When starting to "French" kiss, open your mouth just slightly. You're trying to kiss here ... not eat a Big Mac; this is not the time to open wide and stick your tongue all the way out!
Let your partner accept the tip of your tongue into his mouth, and vice versa. As you get more intense try sucking lightly on your partner's tongue, but be careful not to suck too hard, or you may make him feel like you're trying to rip his tongue from his mouth.

Try gently nibbling or sucking on your partner's lips. Feel their texture, softness, and even their taste with your tongue. Though it's generally subtle and easily unnoticed, the lips of different men do actually have their own unique flavour. Be a creative kisser.
Always be aware of your teeth. It's not really pleasant to be French kissing someone and feeling his teeth scrape the area around your mouth. Though teeth can effectively be used for fun. A light bite or nibble on your partner's chin can be a display of passionate sexual aggression!
When kissing someone - kiss him the same way you enjoy being kissed. Think back and remember a guy you really enjoyed kissing. How did he kiss you? What was so different about the way he kissed you? Try imitating those methods with your future partners.

Most guys kiss with their eyes closed. Ignore the impulse to close your eyes when kissing and try opening them occasionally. It adds a new perspective to the experience.
When kissing other parts of your partner's body see if you can find his sensitive areas without asking him where they are. Explore his body with your lips, and pay attention to his feedback. Does he tense up? Does he hold you tighter? Does his breathing change? Is he smiling?
Some commonly sensitive areas are - love handles, the insides of thighs, the belly button, nipples, armpits, the small of the back, backs of knees, and so on. The "hot spots" vary greatly from one guy to another, as do degrees of sensitivity. Again, closely read his feedback, or he may end up being bored when you're earnestly doing your best to stimulate him.

Once again don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favour and both of you will have a better time.

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	A kiss can set the mood for your entire sexual experience with your partner. The key to good kissing is to actively use your lips. Have you ever kissed a guy that didn't use his lips at all? Kissing a guy who just tenses his lips and leaves them like that feels like kissing a statue. Relax or at least, make a mental effort to relax, your lips. Allow them to be soft and pliable. As you start to kiss, try gently brushing your partner's cheek with them, or run them along his neck just barely making contact with his skin.
	Don't be afraid to use your breath. Feeling a guy's warm breath on my neck, or gently blowing in my ear, can be very hot! It can send goose bumps down my neck, back, and arms. This type of gentle foreplay with your partner can be extremely sensual, and it can build up sexual tension. It can also serve to establish nonverbal communication between the two of you. His reactions to this sort of foreplay will give you indications of his overall sexual responsiveness. As you get into it, you'll probably start using your tongue. Run or flick your tongue across his lips, moistening them slightly without actually kissing him. When you do finally kiss, make sure to lick your own lips from time to time to ensure their softness. It's not very pleasant to kiss someone whose lips have the texture of sandpaper.
	Use your tongue on his neck, gently running it around his earlobe and ear. If you feel like it, suck on his earlobe. Try covering his entire ear with your mouth and gently exhale. Try not to inhale while doing this, and don't exhale too quickly because the rushing air will make him feel like he's in a wind tunnel. When starting to "French" kiss, open your mouth just slightly. You're trying to kiss here ... not eat a Big Mac; this is not the time to open wide and stick your tongue all the way out! Let your partner accept the tip of your tongue into his mouth, and vice versa. As you get more intense try sucking lightly on your partner's tongue, but be careful not to suck too hard, or you may make him feel like you're trying to rip his tongue from his mouth.
	Try gently nibbling or sucking on your partner's lips. Feel their texture, softness, and even their taste with your tongue. Though it's generally subtle and easily unnoticed, the lips of different men do actually have their own unique flavour. Be a creative kisser. Always be aware of your teeth. It's not really pleasant to be French kissing someone and feeling his teeth scrape the area around your mouth. Though teeth can effectively be used for fun. A light bite or nibble on your partner's chin can be a display of passionate sexual aggression! When kissing someone - kiss him the same way you enjoy being kissed. Think back and remember a guy you really enjoyed kissing. How did he kiss you? What was so different about the way he kissed you? Try imitating those methods with your future partners.
	Most guys kiss with their eyes closed. Ignore the impulse to close your eyes when kissing and try opening them occasionally. It adds a new perspective to the experience. When kissing other parts of your partner's body see if you can find his sensitive areas without asking him where they are. Explore his body with your lips, and pay attention to his feedback. Does he tense up? Does he hold you tighter? Does his breathing change? Is he smiling? Some commonly sensitive areas are - love handles, the insides of thighs, the belly button, nipples, armpits, the small of the back, backs of knees, and so on. The "hot spots" vary greatly from one guy to another, as do degrees of sensitivity. Again, closely read his feedback, or he may end up being bored when you're earnestly doing your best to stimulate him.
	Once again don't be afraid to use your imagination - be creative, be playful, have fun with it. If you make an effort to be in-tune with your partner, chances are he'll return the favour and both of you will have a better time.