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Butt plugs are somewhat similar to dildos, in that they are both anal sex toys, but there are significant differences between the two. While dildos are generally used for a short period of time (i.e., you use them as a source of stimulation until you cum -- or your partner cums if you are playing with a dildo in his ass -- then you remove the dildo), butt plugs are typically something you use by yourself, and you can leave them in your ass for extended periods of time.
Butt plugs have a narrow tip that then increases in diameter to the widest point at about the half-way length of the butt plug, then the diameter decreases to a narrow section just above the base of the butt plug which is flared and wide. When inserted in your ass, your sphincter muscles can close around the recessed neck of the butt plug, helping to keep the wide section of the butt plug firmly in place further up your ass. The flared base prevents the butt plug from sliding all the way into your ass.

As with dildos, butt plugs come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Butt plugs can be a great toy to use for getting used to have something in your ass, and being shorter than dildos, butt plugs are a great way to get started with anal play, if you are new to it. Butt plugs can help you stretch your sphincter muscle so that it becomes easier to take other things (e.g., cocks or dildos) up your ass. Butt plugs are very stimulating, and many men find them very pleasurable to use. Some tops, and versatile guys, will use a butt plug themselves when being a top for anal sex with their partner, to maximize their own stimulation and pleasure.
Use lots of lube with a butt plug. If you're new to this, start by working just the tip of the butt plug into your ass. Slide it in a bit (maybe an inch, or a couple of centimeters), pause, pull it out just a bit, twist it a bit to spread the lube inside your ass, then push it in a bit further. Pause whenever you feel a bit of discomfort, as your sphincter muscles get stretched. After a minute or so, the muscles should relax, and you can proceed to slide the butt plug in a bit further. Once you have pushed the widest part of the butt plug past your sphincter muscles, the muscles will clamp down on the butt plug, and due to the shape of the plug, push it the rest of the way inside you. You may find this is a strange sensation the first time, but you don't need to worry about stopping the butt plug from being pulled in; just enjoy the sensation of the muscles in your ass pushing the butt plug all the way into your ass, until the base of the butt plug is snug against your ass!

When the butt plug is all the way in, pause for a moment. Allow some time for your sphincter muscles to relax. Many guys really like the feeling of "fullness" in their ass that they get with a butt plug.
Get used to the butt plug, by clenching and releasing your sphincter muscles. Move your legs, and feel how that causes the butt plug to move inside you a bit.
If at any time when you are inserting the butt plug in your ass, you feel the butt plug stick inside you, gently remove it, and put more lube on it. If you leave the butt plug in for a while, the lube will likely dry out, and you may feel that the butt plug becomes stuck in place. Rest assured that it WILL come out again!
Some men like to leave the butt plug in place as they go about their day. When you use a butt plug that is of the right length, such that the tip of the plug rests in the area of your prostate gland, motions like walking will cause the plug to massage your prostate gland with each step. This can be a very pleasing sensation!

Some men like to leave their butt plug in place at night while they sleep.
When the plug gets uncomfortable, or you want to remove it, gently use your muscles to push it out, just as if you were having a bowel movement. You can also gently pull the plug out using the base of the plug.
If you want to stretch your sphincter muscle so that you can take larger cocks/dildos up your ass, get yourself a series of butt plugs, each one a bit bigger than the previous one. After using the smallest one a few times, graduate to the next bigger one, and so on. It's a good idea, after having used a butt plug, to go without it for a day or two before using it again. This will allow your sphincter muscles time to return to their normal state of being able to close off your ass. By using a butt plug every few days, you'll condition your sphincter muscles to be able to have great elasticity, to stretch a great deal, but also to return to their normal state.

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	Butt plugs are somewhat similar to dildos, in that they are both anal sex toys, but there are significant differences between the two. While dildos are generally used for a short period of time (i.e., you use them as a source of stimulation until you cum -- or your partner cums if you are playing with a dildo in his ass -- then you remove the dildo), butt plugs are typically something you use by yourself, and you can leave them in your ass for extended periods of time. Butt plugs have a narrow tip that then increases in diameter to the widest point at about the half-way length of the butt plug, then the diameter decreases to a narrow section just above the base of the butt plug which is flared and wide. When inserted in your ass, your sphincter muscles can close around the recessed neck of the butt plug, helping to keep the wide section of the butt plug firmly in place further up your ass. The flared base prevents the butt plug from sliding all the way into your ass.
	As with dildos, butt plugs come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Butt plugs can be a great toy to use for getting used to have something in your ass, and being shorter than dildos, butt plugs are a great way to get started with anal play, if you are new to it. Butt plugs can help you stretch your sphincter muscle so that it becomes easier to take other things (e.g., cocks or dildos) up your ass. Butt plugs are very stimulating, and many men find them very pleasurable to use. Some tops, and versatile guys, will use a butt plug themselves when being a top for anal sex with their partner, to maximize their own stimulation and pleasure. Use lots of lube with a butt plug. If you're new to this, start by working just the tip of the butt plug into your ass. Slide it in a bit (maybe an inch, or a couple of centimeters), pause, pull it out just a bit, twist it a bit to spread the lube inside your ass, then push it in a bit further. Pause whenever you feel a bit of discomfort, as your sphincter muscles get stretched. After a minute or so, the muscles should relax, and you can proceed to slide the butt plug in a bit further. Once you have pushed the widest part of the butt plug past your sphincter muscles, the muscles will clamp down on the butt plug, and due to the shape of the plug, push it the rest of the way inside you. You may find this is a strange sensation the first time, but you don't need to worry about stopping the butt plug from being pulled in; just enjoy the sensation of the muscles in your ass pushing the butt plug all the way into your ass, until the base of the butt plug is snug against your ass!
	When the butt plug is all the way in, pause for a moment. Allow some time for your sphincter muscles to relax. Many guys really like the feeling of "fullness" in their ass that they get with a butt plug. Get used to the butt plug, by clenching and releasing your sphincter muscles. Move your legs, and feel how that causes the butt plug to move inside you a bit. If at any time when you are inserting the butt plug in your ass, you feel the butt plug stick inside you, gently remove it, and put more lube on it. If you leave the butt plug in for a while, the lube will likely dry out, and you may feel that the butt plug becomes stuck in place. Rest assured that it WILL come out again! Some men like to leave the butt plug in place as they go about their day. When you use a butt plug that is of the right length, such that the tip of the plug rests in the area of your prostate gland, motions like walking will cause the plug to massage your prostate gland with each step. This can be a very pleasing sensation!
	Some men like to leave their butt plug in place at night while they sleep. When the plug gets uncomfortable, or you want to remove it, gently use your muscles to push it out, just as if you were having a bowel movement. You can also gently pull the plug out using the base of the plug. If you want to stretch your sphincter muscle so that you can take larger cocks/dildos up your ass, get yourself a series of butt plugs, each one a bit bigger than the previous one. After using the smallest one a few times, graduate to the next bigger one, and so on. It's a good idea, after having used a butt plug, to go without it for a day or two before using it again. This will allow your sphincter muscles time to return to their normal state of being able to close off your ass. By using a butt plug every few days, you'll condition your sphincter muscles to be able to have great elasticity, to stretch a great deal, but also to return to their normal state.