Don't just lay there and take it! If it hasn't become apparent
yet from reading the previous pages - I love to get fucked!!!
I feel that even though the top does all the bumping and the
grinding, it's the bottom that has all the work.
I guess to start off with, you need to decide if it's a good
day/night/time to get fucked. I hate messes, because they can be unpleasant and
embarrassing. If you know that there's a possibility that you're going to get
fucked that evening. It's a good idea to use the appropriate facilities and
'purge' yourself before starting that evening's adventures. I'm talking about
taking a good long hard crap, and then showering and making sure you are
thoroughly clean "down there".
You can also use a handheld showerhead to "flush-out" your
lower colon. Unscrew the hose from the showerhead and turn on the water
(not full power) and run the water until it is lukewarm or comfortable to the
skin. Place the hose near your asshole and press it forward until you feel the
stream of water penetrate you. Let it fill you up for 2 to 3 seconds. Step out
from the shower so you can sit on the toilet and release. Repeat this a couple
of times if necessary.
Another piece of prep work you can do, is to properly
moisturize down there using a water based hand/body lotion.
I want to make one thing clear. I'm not a size queen - I'm
somewhat of a size queen. I think size does make a difference, and especially
thickness - though often length makes up for girth.
If you find yourself fortunate enough to be with a "date"
that's rather sizably endowed, look at it as a challenge. I recommend starting
with a position where he is on his back and you sit down on top of his cock.
This is usually the easiest way for you to get used to a cock inside of you, and
especially one that is larger than what you're normally used to. It also allows
you to have complete control over how much goes inside you. Once you're used to
him, you can try all the different positions under the sun.
This position also works for those who are inexperienced, and
have never been fucked, or haven't been fucked too often. If it truly is your
first time "getting it" then I have a tip to offer you - as his cock is working
its way inside of you, push against it with your ass like your taking a dump.
Fight the urge to clamp your ass shut, because then it will start to hurt.
If you are quick to shoot while getting fucked (like me) and it often cuts
the whole experience short, then I have a position I like a whole lot. It's
getting fucked on your stomach with your legs closed.
This accomplishes two things - it keeps your hand and his hand
away from your cock so that you can "enjoy the ride" and it allows you to
squeeze the cheeks of your butt together making your ass a lot tighter for your
partner. I have yet to run across a top that likes to fuck a loose ass. It's
also a good position if you're with a guy that just doesn't seem to be able to
cum and you're ready to end the party in a hurry. Most of my partners have yet
to last more than 5 minutes with me in that position.
On the subject of keeping your ass tight. If you've been
fucked before you're familiar with that 'loose' feeling you get afterwards. A
helpful tip is to 'exercise' your ass - squeeze the cheeks of your ass together
a couple of times when you're sitting down, or standing. Also try to learn how
to get more control over the muscles in your butt, so that you can relax your
hole when you need to, and tighten it up when you want to.
Be an aggressive bottom - don't just lay there - if your
partner doesn't seem to take the initiative - then take it yourself. Make him
use different positions. Tell him how you want him to fuck you, fast or slow.
Tell him you want him to stroke your cock etc. etc. After all, you are the one
that's really in control here - you decide when the fun starts and when it ends.
Most guys that have fucked me really like to get that kind of feedback.
Use your imagination, and have him fuck you the way you want
to be fucked.