If you don't enjoy or aren't even curious about rimming -
licking a guy's ass - then this page is not for you.
I personally get off more on rimming a cute butt, than getting
rimmed. It's common sense, to make sure that your partner is clean "down there"
before you dig in :-)
Position is the key to doing an effective job here. Just as
the 69 position is popular with a lot of people for blowjobs - the 69 position
is the best, and my favorite, for rimming.
I find it very erotic to have my partner straddle my face with
his ass with his body facing my legs. This allows me the most access to his
butt. A little like this.
When in this position a lot of guys are tempted to lean
forward and try to rim you or suck your cock at the same time. When your partner
does this to you his butt rotates up and you have to strain your neck and tongue
trying to reach it. To avoid this tell him to sit up, but also he should support
some of his weight, otherwise you might have too much of a good thing in your
face and you may find it difficult to breathe.
If you want him to suck your cock while rimming him, then use
your legs to lift your hips upward. This should bring your crotch close enough
to his mouth for him to suck on you.
If your partner insists on rimming you at the same time, and
your back is pretty flexible, ask him to use his hands to grab your legs by the
backs of your knees, and lift your ass in the air and closer to his mouth. He
should be able to rim you without leaning over too much.
Another good position for rimming your partner is for him to
be on all fours, or even better, flat on his stomach with his legs spread widely
apart. Then you can really go to town on him :)
When it comes to rimming it helps to have a lot of dexterity
with your tongue. The deeper your push your tongue the better it feels. The
slicker you make your partner's ass the easier it is for you. Use your hands to
spread his butt cheeks apart. An interesting experience for your partner may be
to get "hummed".
"Humming" is pushing your face into his ass, with your tongue
probing his hole, and then moaning/humming out loud. A lot of guys probably
haven't experienced this kind of "vibration". Try it sometime.
When rimming a guy, playfully lick, gently bite his ass
cheeks. Squeeze them with your hands, feel their texture.
Don't overlook the "miracle inch". This is the area between
the base of his balls and his asshole. For a lot of guys this is a super
hypersensitive area. Try giving it a good tongue bath.
Fingers can be a mixed proposition. If you are going to finger
your partner's ass while rimming him, make sure that both - your finger and his
asshole - are slick with saliva, otherwise he may resist.
The skin on your fingers is usually a lot rougher than you
think. So having a finger up there might not always feel good.
If you're rimming a guy who is a complete top - it may be a
big turn off for him to have a finger, or anything, up his ass. Though if your
partner is versatile or a bottom, he may enjoy a finger or two, or five *grin*.
You'll have to ask him to find out. Also fingernails may cause "snags" so be
careful. Rimming is one of those acts, that's become a main stream fetish.
If your partner has never been rimmed before - encourage him to give it a go and
see how he feels. Chances are he'll love it.
Don't necessarily expect him to return the favor. There is
still a very large number of prissy guys out there that are squeamish about
licking another guy's ass. Considering that a good shower is still the most
effective precaution against anything unsavory, I have to say that they are the
ones with a problem and are missing out - not you.